5 Things I Wish I Knew About Preaching to Students 20 Years Ago

Preaching to students is an incredible privilege and responsibility. Looking back over the past 20 years of sharing the gospel with young people, there are a few key lessons I wish I had understood sooner. Whether you're a youth pastor, a speaker, or someone who works with students, here are five things I’ve learned that might encourage you as you engage the next generation with the message of Jesus.

1. It’s OK to Keep It Simple

Students can handle complex theology—but they need it in clear, relatable truths. Too often, we feel the need to impress with theological depth, but the key is to break those truths down in ways students can grasp and apply. Simplifying your message doesn't mean watering it down; it means presenting the gospel in a way that connects with their everyday lives. Students crave truth, and when you present it clearly, it helps them take the next step in walking with Jesus.

2. Authenticity Trumps Perfection

Students can spot when you’re trying too hard. They’re not looking for a polished performance; they’re looking for authenticity. Be real with them—share your struggles, your doubts, and how you’re learning to follow Jesus in the messiness of life. When you’re transparent about your own walk with God, it gives them permission to do the same. The power of your message doesn’t come from perfection but from a genuine faith lived out in front of them.

3. Relationships Speak Louder Than Words

Some of the best “sermons” happen offstage. While preaching and teaching are important, don’t underestimate the impact of time spent with students outside of the message. Your influence grows as you build relationships with them—whether it’s grabbing coffee, showing up to their events, or just listening to what’s going on in their lives. The gospel is often best communicated through relationships, and your care and presence may speak louder than any sermon you ever preach.

4. They Remember Stories, Not Points

Long after your message is over, students will remember the stories you told more than the bullet points you made. Jesus used parables and stories for a reason—they help us see spiritual truth in a way that stays with us. Don’t be afraid to weave personal stories, current events, or cultural references into your preaching. When students see how Scripture intersects with real life, they’re more likely to carry those truths with them.

5. God Works Even When You Don’t See It

You won’t always see immediate results. Sometimes, it can feel discouraging when students don’t seem to be responding or growing as quickly as you’d hoped. But trust that God is working in their hearts, even when you can’t see it. The seeds you plant through your preaching and relationships may take time to bear fruit, but God is faithful. Stay faithful in preaching the Word and loving students, and leave the results in His hands. Your impact is often deeper than you realize.

Final Thoughts

Preaching to students is a long-term investment. It requires faithfulness, patience, and a willingness to meet them where they are. Remember, it’s not about delivering the perfect message every time—it’s about authentically sharing the truth of Jesus and trusting God to work in their lives. Keep it simple, keep it real, and keep building relationships that reflect the love of Christ. You may not see all the fruit immediately, but rest assured, God is using you in ways that will last for eternity.

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